People have sexual encounters in many different ways. Sometimes they involve rubbing skin on skin. Sometimes they involve genital-genital or oral-genital contact. Other times, people use their fingers and hands to stimulate their partners. This is known as fingering.
I cannot insert anything into my vagina. What should I do? | Scarleteen
I'm thinking about buying Lunette cup and I've been watching videos about insertion in advance. Are you supposed to put two fingers in, while inserting? I'm really confused because I'm definitely not able to do that by myself. Is there a way how to insert it just with 1 finger in vagina, eg. Are there any good videos about it? Also, do I need to stick two fingers in for removing?
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I should mention that I've seen a gynecologist and she says there's no sort of physical impediment involved and that if I practice I'll be able to do it, but it's so uncomfortable. It's not getting easier. When I visit the gynecologist I have to be tanked up on valium, and I'm the sort of person who can go through major surgical operations without flinching.