Some might say that great sex is based on pushing boundaries or kinkiness, but, in my not-so-expert opinion, great sex is based on tension. Great sex requires the releasing of tension that's been carefully created, built, and simmered for a while. This can happen between two friends over six months, or between two people on a five hour date. It's about chemistry and subtle realizations. With each minute you spend together you're creating mental and spiritual foreplay building tension before releasing it.
Luckily, there are certain things the majority of women crave in the bedroom. We want to feel desired. We want to feel appreciated. And most of all, we want to feel like our pleasure is a priority. Remember, women love to feel sexually wanted and desired by their partners — and nothing says desire like spur-of-the-moment sex on the living room stairs. Unplanned, spontaneous love-making increases the lust factor by showing your partner that your attraction for her trumps everything else. Turn her on by telling her you need to have her right there and then, no matter the time or the place.
Sex can mean different things to different people. Things like kissing, touching, rubbing and stroking are all things that can make you feel good. Knowing about all of the options can help you make informed choices that are best for you.
There are all different types of sexual adventures: There's the sex that leaves us wanting more, the sex that makes us wish we never Uber-ed to our ex's house and the sex that crushes our dignity as we walk home in last night's outfit that's giving all the early birds a reason to stare. The world is in dire need of a universal list of all the types of sex each person will experience in life, for a few reasons. We can begin to prepare ourselves for the weird, raunchy and wild nights ahead, as well as catalog certain sexual experiences that have left us asking ourselves: WTF just happened? So here it is: every single type of sex you've had, will have eventually or are about to engage in the second you lock up your phone after reading this article. It's going to hurt.