It’s Time to Take Your Temperature on Topping and Bottoming
Urban Dictionary: Bottom
Thinking about having anal sex , but don't know if you're a top or bottom? First things first: Let's take a look at what the terms mean. Bear in mind that human sexuality is fluid and highly nuanced, and the labels as used here are meant only to help us understand each other, not to stereotype or classify too strictly. A top is a partner who prefers to penetrate his partner—as opposed to a bottom, who prefers to be penetrated. Explaining the terms this way, however, is a bit of an oversimplification.
This is clearly not the case, especially for those people who consider themselves versatile HIYA. But it ought not to be impossible to sexually switch things up. Sure, people have a preference, but now could be the perfect time to escape the top or bottom prison you live in. It could open up a world of possibilities.
Some people like to top and bottom when they have sex, but what is this, who does what and do you have to do it? Someone can be a top without putting their dick inside someone. Also someone can be a top without having a dick. It can also be about control.