One night, after too many whiskey sours, the conversation among a group of my closest friends and I turned to sex. We're not a judge-y group, nor are we bashful when it comes to providing the intimate details of our sex lives. And, yet, when one of my friends revealed that she falls off the orgasmic cliff when her boyfriend calls her a "whore" just as she's about to come, she lowered her eyelids to the table. She seemed almost apologetic. In a really good way. One by one, the "degrading sex" dominoes began to fall.
What Amazing Sex Feels Like For Women (In Their Words)
Rough sex is often the topic of heated debates, with many categorizing it as abuse and others categorizing it as a legitimate fetish. How old are you? Woman A: Twenty-seven. Woman B: Twenty-three. Woman C: Thirty-four. What do you consider rough sex?
What It's Really Like to Be a Woman Who Loves Rough Sex
There was no past or future. There was no job. There was no rent payments. There was no fear or anxiety.
Do you really know what women want when things get hot and heavy? Or are you blithely unaware, resorting to your catalog of porn to pull out moves you assume are successful, because damn, those women seem to be enjoying it? While adult films have, for better or worse, become a de-facto form of sex education , what you see on screen is sometimes just for show.