Tips on giving a g spot orgasm

Totally doable. Diving into the abyss of I-have-no-idea-what-is-happening-to-me and what feels like one of the most emotionally intense experiences of your life takes trust. At my Bali retreat last year, I was explaining this to everyone. And the couples took it to heart.

AskMen may get paid if you click a link in this article and buy a product or service. There's no doubt you've heard of the G-spot: that mythical area that supposedly feels extra good for ladies when you hit it. If you haven't managed to find it on your girl, don't feel too bad: there are a lot of women who haven't even found their own G-spots themselves. Why not?

The problem is that a lot of guys have a hard time finding it and frustration often ends up getting the best of them. Here are 4 key steps to bringing her to a G-spot orgasm :. A massage is one of the most intimately powerful weapons in your sexual arsenal. Never underestimate the relaxing, orgasmic potential of a genital massage, specifically targeting the outer labia. Massage them, pinch them lightly and pull them up, down and away from her.

Even if you haven't personally experienced its power, you've heard about the G-spot: an erogenous zone located inside the vagina that can produce some pretty intense sensations. Thing is, it can also produce some intense frustration because it is, for many women, so damn elusive. And though the whole notion of the G-spot is hardly new — sex researchers have touted it for years — the medical establishment was always skeptical as to whether it really even existed. Well, we're bringing you some great news: The G-spot is a very real part of your anatomy, newly documented in MRI scans and biopsies by medical doctors. Thanks to this new research, we now know that every chick is capable of experiencing more concentrated sexual pleasure — including powerful orgasms, says Irwin Goldstein, MD, director of sexual medicine at Alvarado Hospital, in San Diego, and editor-in-chief of the Journal of Sexual Medicine.