One second orgasm

By now, you've probably heard about the ways the deck is stacked against women when it comes to orgasming. It can be more complicated for a woman to figure out what works for her compared to the tragically simple "up-down" motion on a penis that seems to do the trick every time , and women just aren't having as many orgasms as men in general. But for all the drawbacks there's one huge upside: the ability to have multiple orgasms in a short window of time. Meaning that once you've mastered that first peak, the climb to the next one is absolutely obtainable. But Dr. Some women are perfectly satisfied with just one orgasm," she says.

And when I did, I thought for a long time that I had some kind of sexual dysfunction. I enjoyed my sexual experiences, both solo and partnered, but I never had the kind of orgasm I saw in movies, porn, and even my female partners — the whole-body, wild ecstasy, consumed-with-pleasure moment that seemed to be the standard. I was pretty sure I was having orgasms; they were just a lot more low-key. The first one is the one we see most often in media. For these folks, arousal increases until they hit plateau, a state of high sexual arousal that can be fairly brief or last a long time. Eventually, it peaks into a sharp, intense orgasm. After that, they may stay at plateau and have a second or even third orgasm, or they may drop off right away into resolution, the stage of happy exhaustion and relaxation.

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Experts reveal how you can keep the feeling going for as long as 20 seconds — and reap the benefits…. Women might draw the short straw when it comes to many areas of physiology, but not when it comes to orgasms. On top of this, women are capable of having multiple climaxes in a single romp — some even report having orgasms into the double figures. The benefits are numerous, including stress relief from depression and natural pain relief.