Make her orgasm during sex

Here's how to inoculate ourselves against negative ones. Verified by Psychology Today. All About Sex. We release laughter from deep within ourselves when conditions feel right. These suggestions increase her likelihood of a happy ending:. On TV and in movies and pornography , women always seem to have orgasms during intercourse.

Phil says it takes a woman 14 minutes to have an orgasm… well I feel bad for Dr. Well, one thing is for sure… unless you have delayed ejaculation, a woman generally does take longer to orgasm than men do. My experience with the female orgasm was not always good… in fact it was terrible — trauma-causing terrible. I had the love of my life leave me due to my inability to satisfy her in bed. The female orgasm was a mystery to me. Something I thought was reserved for stronger, higher-level men in the food chain, from a Darwinistic point of view. After that girl left me, it became my life mission to be able to make a woman orgasm.

If you're a woman who finds climaxing easy and can have orgasms during intercourse with little effort — even in a position where it's difficult for your partner to access the clitoris with the fingertips — then you are very lucky indeed! For the majority of us, 'ringing that bell' is not nearly so simple. Even women who can masturbate to a climax with no difficulty can feel quite anxious about 'coming' with a male partner. This doesn't seem fair, because apart from the small minority of men who have psychological difficulties with sex and who cannot relax enough to ejaculate into their partner delayed ejaculation , most males have no problem at all in climaxing during sexual intercourse. But of course, in a man, the penis is the pleasure-provider.

In fact, some experts say 70 percent of women rarely or never have orgasms. And yet men put a premium on it for a few obvious reasons: 1 porn and 2 they want to feel like their penis is a sexual hot rod that will make you speak in tongues and throw your vibrator into a volcano. Ob-gyn Heather Bartos explains that vaginal orgasms tend to be deeper and involve more pulsating of the vaginal muscles than clitoral orgasms. The clitoris is super sensitive afterward and a longer refractory period may be necessary. They can be enhanced with the G-spot, which provides a different sensation, and clitoral orgasm during penetration can give you the feeling of vaginal orgasm.