Messages You have no messages. Notifications You have no notifications. Search AskMen Search submit button News. Type your question. Enter more details. I caught my wife in the act after 2 yrs of marriage now past 30 yrs never told her because i didn't want to embarrass her, When I ask if she has ever, says she doesn't need to and gets irritated.
Why do wives lie about masturbating? - guyQ by AskMen
Other reasons include shame for doing so, just not wanting to, or not knowing how. Which inadvertently fuels the same two limited options for women when it comes to sex: slut or prude. The truth is, neither is a permanent state of being, and everyone falls somewhere in the middle of the two ends of the spectrum of desire, which fluctuates. Masturbation Month was actually created to honor a woman, Jocelyn Elders. The former U. Surgeon General, and the first African American one at that, had a shockingly frank take on masturbation and sexual health for the early 90s. She thought public school kids should be given free condoms, and at a United Nations AIDS conference, she said she thought masturbation should be taught as a form of safe sex.
There is no normal when it comes to sex, DIY or not. Jo : Actually, used to masturbate but stopped after entering a long term relationship. The difficult part is just starting. I also am scared of doing it wrong.
Because of our jobs, my wife and I are temporarily living apart. As a result she often gets horny so I tell her to masturbate. But she won't. How can you expect to get another person to masturbate when they don't want to? You have no right to tell your wife what she should do, and what she should enjoy.