Amazing masturbation tips

Masturbation is something that we rarely talk about, but why? Not only is it so great for your confidence, happiness, and overall pleasure, but it can actually make sex with your partner better too. But changing up the way you show yourself some love can really open you up and allow you to discover more about your turn-ons and desires. Here, sex experts and educators give their best advice on how to get the most out of your masturbation sesh. Know the movements.

Masturbation can be totally daunting. I also get frustrated by how easily I can get thrown off course, or about how particular I am with my environment. Ultimately, though, I feel happy to have one reliable way to get myself off. I know from my experience as an educator that there are many, many others who have yet to find a way they like to do it. When we take the time to explore on our own, though, both our solo and partnered sex lives benefit. Exhibit A: I need intense pressure or vibration to get off, but my sexual partners for the first five years of my sex life only executed light, fluttery rubs and tickles or suction-y cunnilingus — which I hated.

When it comes to men and self-pleasure, it's no surprise that most guys love it. After all, what do most men enjoy second only to beer, sports, and allowing their jobs consume them? Why, having sex, of course!

AskMen may get paid if you click a link in this article and buy a product or service. Maybe you learned a specific method when you were younger, either from your own trial and error or from another source. Regardless, read on to discover a litany of masturbation techniques, gadgets to help you out, and benefits to the practice. You're sure to find something you like. Male masturbation, while usually a solo performance done in private, can also be used as part of intercourse with a partner.