How to have sex with lesbian

Skip navigation! Story from Sex. Sophie Saint Thomas. It should go without saying that sex between two women is a beautiful thing. Unfortunately, there's a lot of misinformation out there. So when two people with vulvas are having sex , I think a lot of folks don't understand how that works since there's no penis.

Your first time having lesbian sex , or girl-on-girl slash vulva-on-vulva sex, can be pretty nerve racking and daunting. No matter how confident you are, or how much lesbian porn you've watched which FYI, is not realistic AT ALL all vaginas are different and like to stimulated in different ways. So if you're in need of some tips on how to have sex with a girl or vulva-having person, here's what you need to know - from how to beat the nerves, to which lesbian sex positions to try. I know you're thinking,"How on earth will I know what to do? If you've had male or penis-having sexual partners before, that may help inform a fair bit of what you do, but it still might feel strange to be giving what you have previously received.

You would be very, very wrong. One of my friends is a suave South American stud, and I remember a few years ago he would constantly — and proudly — reference his ability to have sex with lesbian women, even if they had never had sex with a guy before. But most of my friend group just laughed it off as idle talk. They said that the one lesbian or at least what they thought was one girl that he was able to hook up with had been a complete fluke. Not I, Colt Williams.

Having oral sex with another woman is one of the great things about being a lesbian. Oral sex can seem intimidating for first-timers, but it's a skill that you can work on and improve over time. Regardless, no two women are the same—and each might like something a little different than the other. One of the most exciting things about being with a new partner can be getting that first glimpse of her pubic region.