Rubbing her clit during sex

Welcome to Glamour UK. This site uses cookies to improve your experience and deliver personalised advertising. You can opt out at any time or find out more by reading our cookie policy. Luckily, in sex, the days of feeling as frustrated as randomly losing 10 Instagram followers are over. Cue, five genius ways to take your clitoris from bit part to leading lady.

Women have been taught that the ultimate sexual achievement is simultaneous orgasm during sex. When women focus on having orgasms during intercourse, they're ignoring the basic facts of their sexual anatomy. Most studies reveal that 60 to 80 percent of women never have orgasms during sex , yet a lot of women hesitate to ask their lovers to bring them to a sexual climax through other sexual activities. Our culture's relentless emphasis on sex creates a lot of pressure to enjoy it as the main event, when the reality is that many women find other kinds of sexual stimulation preferable to reach an orgasm.

Think of this guide on clit stimulation as an extension of my other masturbation guide here. Note To Men: You guys can also perform these techniques to help give your partner more intense orgasms more often. While you can skip down the page to the techniques by clicking here, I first want to cover a few important things that will help you to get the most out of these clitoral stimulation techniques and experience eye-rolling, screaming orgasms. Before reading the clitoral stimulation guide below, you may want to listen to the podcast I recorded on having more clitoral orgasms, more often. In the second half of the episode, I also talk about having more vaginal orgasms.

To make the mysteries of the clit a little less intimidating, we asked a bunch of people with vaginas what they actually want sexual partners to do to their clitoris. I can make myself orgasm in seconds. Not feeling rushed makes a massive difference as well.