Anyone wanting to explore the world of bondage and BDSM sex for the first time should, rightfully, be super excited. But you do also need to know a few things before you go in all spanking paddles blazing. BDSM on TV and in films isn't always depicted in a realistic way, which is why there are a few misconceptions about sexual play. Being knowledgeable will ensure your experience is both enjoyable and goes smoothly. Here's what you need to know before you try. Any kind of kinky play should always be safe, sane and consensual SSC.
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