Bdsm collaring cerimonies

On 14 July , our first anniversary, Walter formally collared me in a beautiful ceremony. I thought I would share that ceremony here, for those who have never experienced one. A collaring ceremony is in some respects like a wedding. It signifies a permanent commitment between a Dominant and a submissive. But like a wedding, the Dominant and the submissive make vows to one another, promising their love and support.

Well, here's a collaring ceremony that combines both! This is sort of a collaring ceremony as a wedding. It will also be a polyamorous focused ceremony with our spouses giving us away — in a manner of speaking. So, this is the draft for my vanilla , polyamorous , collaring ceremony…. Dominant: Today we are here to formalize our commitment to each other, but in doing so we must acknowledge its place amongst the other commitments of our lives. I am asking you to commit yourself to me and make me one of the highest priorities in your life, but your children and your marriage must always come first.

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In a BDSM context, a collar is a device of any material worn by a person around the neck to indicate their submissive or slave status in a BDSM relationship. A person wearing a collar to symbolize their relationship with another is said to be collared. Some people conduct formal "collaring ceremonies", which are regarded as effectively solemnizing their relationship in a similar way as a marriage ceremony and the collar having similar significance as a wedding ring. The standard form of a collar is a black leather band around the neck, often with metal D-rings added to allow the attachment of a leash , rope or other restraints; but to be more discreet in public, some people may wear an ordinary choker or jewelry necklace for the same symbolic purpose. Collars may be used in role-playing games involving erotic humiliation because they have connotations of control and pet -like status, especially when worn with a leash.